There is a thief on the loose, and it’s called NEGATIVE
THINKING. Maybe you know what I'm talking about because you've had an unpleasant encounter with this slick attacker.
Negative thinking comes and goes so fast that, in most cases, you don’t even
realize all that has been stolen from you. It happens faster than you can say, "what just happened?"
Here's what I mean. Maybe you have never been a positive thinker, someone with a big dream, a wonderful plan, a grand
hope, an exciting idea, giddy energy and high inspiration, a ton of motivation and a terrific outlook. If so, you may not even realize how much is possibly "missing" from your life because of your thinking. Interestingly though, even the most positive of thinkers get hit by hard times and challenges and one
day wake up, and find that all of their good mental “stuff” is gone. In such cases, negative
thinking will often creep in.
The perpetrator will try to steal the dream, your faith and fortitude, your hopes, and take off with your ideas and energy, leaving you feeling helpless and victimized. Does it have to? No, it doesn’t, but we must realize that it’s the negative thinking that does it. We get the very rug pulled from under us by this criminal that tells us there is no reason to try again, start again or believe again. Unfortunately, we can’t arrest this attacker or call 911 for help, because this “thief” has been allowed protection under the law of your very own mind. That's the case, until you change the law.
The perpetrator will try to steal the dream, your faith and fortitude, your hopes, and take off with your ideas and energy, leaving you feeling helpless and victimized. Does it have to? No, it doesn’t, but we must realize that it’s the negative thinking that does it. We get the very rug pulled from under us by this criminal that tells us there is no reason to try again, start again or believe again. Unfortunately, we can’t arrest this attacker or call 911 for help, because this “thief” has been allowed protection under the law of your very own mind. That's the case, until you change the law.
Negative thinking comes on the scene of your mind and works so quickly,
never fearing its own repercussions. Negative thinking can go straight back to its
safe abode, right inside your mind, and never worry about being caught. At
least, not until you realize how vicious this culprit is, and not until you
have come to realize who and what it is that has been stealing your faith and
your future. These negative thoughts are armed with the ability to pounce on
you unexpectedly, and they are so dangerous that you can find that your whole
life and many a great opportunity and choice has been taken by its wild and terrorist
ways.
How do you stop the awful, mental intrusions? How do you
guard against the break-ins? How do you combat its mean forces when you hardly see
it coming? How do you protect your mind against its aggressive attacks? How do
you keep the negative thinking thief from stealing your best life?
Here’s a tip: The first thing is to understand that just as
much as we say that there is power in positive thinking, there is also power in
negative thinking. It is a reality. It is true. You will walk into a more
promising day or even destiny when you believe you deserve to, and when you
believe in opportunity, and when you know that many obstacles in life can be
overcome. On the other hand, when you believe that no matter how hard you try,
nothing good will come to you, that you never get the “good breaks”, that at
each and every turn there is a stumbling block that will prevent you from
gaining success, you are getting seriously ripped off.
Those thoughts, that kind of negative thinking, has just stolen your ability to understand that opportunities are truly open game for anyone, that “breaks” come when you keep applying faith and fortitude to your life, projects and plans, and that obstacles and stumbling blocks are a natural course of challenge for everyone, not just especially or necessarily picked out to pick on you and your plans.
Those thoughts, that kind of negative thinking, has just stolen your ability to understand that opportunities are truly open game for anyone, that “breaks” come when you keep applying faith and fortitude to your life, projects and plans, and that obstacles and stumbling blocks are a natural course of challenge for everyone, not just especially or necessarily picked out to pick on you and your plans.
Secondly, you must make every attempt to change your
perspective about what you see; you know all about the “the glass being half full
or half empty” thing. Perspective is
powerful. Perspective will gauge what decisions you will make, what directions
you’ll take and just how far you believe you can go. If you tell yourself, or
should I say if you let negative thinking tell you “there’s no way you can do
that”, there’s no way you’ll succeed”, there’s no way, no way, NO WAY…”, well
you just got robbed AGAIN. Negative thinking took hold of your belief system, your
belief in yourself and your belief in your dream. You must beware of the schemes. Negative thinking is slick,
quick and full of tricks.
I know some will say “I’m not being negative. I am being
realistic.” I am being realistic, too,
when I tell you that negative thinking will swipe you of all of your goods. You
want a good chance at things. You want the good things to come your way. Those
“good things” are right before you, but negative thinking has this way of
stealing you blind, because you didn’t see that as true. You didn’t believe for
yourself that you are good enough to have all that you dream of. You CAN acquire
your “goods”, but you have to believe you can. You do it by putting the lock on
the door of your mind and not allowing negative thinking to take your positive
beliefs captive. You do it by setting an “alarm” that goes off when that
lowdown thief comes to approach you. You do it by recognizing that negative thinking is always lurking, so your positive thinking must be on "ready" with the
ammunition that destroys it. Here’s how
you can work on keeping your mind fully loaded:
1.
1. When a
destructive thought comes to mind, the ones that say “you can’t”, “you won’t”,
“why try?”, “you are never going to make it”, etc., FIRE BACK! “YES, I CAN.”
“YES, I WILL.” “I AM DESERVING.” “I AM GOOD ENOUGH.” Come up with a list of your own thoughts
that express your best and most powerful and positive expressions. Fire back hard, and often, until your belief
system is feeling like your mind is safer from the negative thoughts. You’ll
know, because you will start moving toward more positive things and realities
with less fear and more faith.
2.
2. 2. Write a long list of what you see for yourself,
and read it out loud every day. “I SEE MYSELF in my new job as a nurse.” “I SEE
MYSELF in my brand new convertible sports car (name it).” “I SEE MYSELF in a
beautiful, loving relationship.” “I SEE MYSELF in my dream house”, on so on,
and so on. The MAJOR POINT here is to SEE
IT! VISUALIZE IT, IMAGINE IT,
“TELEVISE” it in your mind. Cancel negative thinking’s plan to rip you off
by SEEING, IN YOUR MIND, THE POSITIVE RESULTS YOU WANT.
3. 3.
Be on the LOOKOUT
for the thief by GUARDING YOUR MIND with positive info. READ, READ, READ
positive and motivating materials, books, articles, etc. LISTEN over and over again to messages that
inspire and empower you. SING songs (at the top of your lungs!) that speak to
your dreams, aspirations and desires. You can have your mind BOLTED UP like
Fort Knox if you put enough security and protection around it. Expect that
negative thoughts will still try to break in, but that’s when you break out
your ammunition and start targeting every attempt with your toughest defense:
KEEPING YOUR GUARD UP. DEMAND THOSE NEGATIVE THOUGHTS TO GET OUT OF
YOUR HEAD AND OUT OF YOUR WAY.
Start today, right now, and decide to never be robbed again
of any of the things you want. Change the laws of your own thinking. Be determined to never allow negative thinking
an opportunity to steal every possibility and potential for a great life. Negative thinking is armed and dangerous, but
with enough effort on your part, when it shows up again with its wily ways and
vicious attempts, your new mentality with be under lock and key.
S.R.F.
You are absolutely correct Ms. Fox when you say that negativity will come like a thief in the night and steal your dreams, goals and aspirations. Your techniques for keeping them at a minimum are on point! I say keep at a minimum because like you said we all have negative thoughts from time to time. But we don't let them overcome us. Also, I want to point out that what you say to counteract those negative beliefs by encoding your brain with positive re-inforcements, must be done consistenly in order for the positive changes to become effective.
ReplyDeleteI love this article and feel that many, many people will benefit from it once they take it to heart.
Thank you!