HOW TO WASTE TIME

Want to know how to waste time? Days, months and years can creep up on you, and before you know it, valuable time has passed by that can't be recouped. Success rarely happens overnight, but whatever your idea is of what that point of achievement looks like, you don't want to let periods of time go by that could have profited you and brought you closer to the pursued objectives.

These are a few of the things that can be obstacles, and a major waste of time:

1. Dreaming a dream and not doing anything to pursue it. We have to make things happen, which means planning and grinding. You can't sit back and expect that all will fall into your lap somehow. It doesn't. It won't. It will be a waste of your time waiting for that to occur. Go for your goals, even if you have to go slow.

2. Wallowing in self-pity after a failure. Whine and complain. Cry for a while. Give yourself a minute to regroup, but whatever you do, don't stay at the pity party wasting time. Work on getting over it, and getting on with your dream.

3. Re-thinking and re-thinking how to reach your goals. Processing helps, but remember that Einstein said to do the same thing over and over and expecting to get different results is insanity. It's also a waste of time. Reflect. Review. Revise.

4. Staying stuck. So, you find yourself at a standstill. Listen, there is a "next". You may have to shut the door on the original plan to get ahead. You may have to start all over. Just do it, and stop wasting time thinking you are done and there is nowhere to go. It's simply not true.

5. Believing you're over and done.  Where is your faith? Catch your breath and shake yourself. If you waste time thinking the game is over, you can lose out on future opportunities because you blinded yourself to them. Possibilities abound. Look for them.

6. Not coming to your own aid. Everybody ain't gonna help you. Stop waiting and waiting and wasting time depending on "someone" to come and make it all happen for you. This is your baby to nurture and grow into something really special. Help yourself. You've got what it takes.

7. Being afraid to knock on new doors. Tired of knocking on doors, so you quit? Say it ain't so! You prefer to just sit around and wait for a door to open? Yes, they can and they do, but waiting could be the wrong effort, because that probably won't happen as quickly as you hoped. Be courageous enough to knock on doors and see what opportunities open up for you sooner than later.

8. Hesitating to follow your gifts. You're gifted in a specific area, and you know it. Put yourself out there so others can see it. Each day that passes by is lost time. Show up for yourself. Hesitation is a bad waiting game, a huge waste of time.

9. Believing that success is supposed to come easy. All I need to say is this, and it's something that I often say: unless you're selling hotdogs and ice cream on the beach, other dreams and goals for success come a little harder to achieve. Be ready to put in the work, and do the time. You don't need to sit back on a setback because things got hard. Pull your together, get up and keep things moving, even when it's hard.

10. Waiting for the right time for something. The right time will be when you develop a plan, and a projected, but not necessarily permanent timeline to get where you want to go. There are a myriad of reasons that make us believe that we must wait for the "right time". You find yourself pondering, years later, and you are still thinking that the right time hasn't come. Unfortunately, it may have come and gone. Do yourself a favor and make the time right.

The clock is ticking. Time is rolling on. The future is before you. Don't let it pass you by. ~ S.R.F.