I can remember how this particular quote impacted me when I first heard it: "Your life will go in the direction of your most dominant thoughts." And, here is another one that will make you THINK: "Wherever you are in life, your thoughts took you there." Wow, right?! That second quote is debatable, though. Where we land is not always our fault, but I do agree that very intentional thinking can guide you to levels of peace, comfort and success.
You've heard about "stinkin'-thinkin'" carrying a toll on your everyday stuff? Certainly you have. It's true that negative thinking will bring poor results, poor resolve, sabotage and failure. This is when and where you have to give some credence to the fact that "your thoughts brought you" there. If you are a negative thinker, you know it's true. Positive thinking does not make every move you make successful and glorious, however, a positive perspective will most often keep you level-headed, optimistic in the midst of setbacks, and powering toward your next move, eventually. Positive thinkers are often happier, too. They believe there is potentially a "better" beyond the worst of things. Is that true? Like I've been saying, it's what you think that matters.
What are you thinking? Good thoughts? Bad thoughts? Are you feeling engulfed in helpless, hopeless thoughts? I know for sure that you are thinking something, so analyze the sad thoughts and the self-destructive thoughts. You are not alone with that type of thinking, but there is a way to help save yourself from further grief, agony and negativity. That first step is to try to release yourself from it. Cry. Shout. Scream. Holler. Get all of the negative energy out to make room for your thoughts to refresh. Get some good therapy. Read some good material. Over time the thoughts minimize if you keep at it. Keep reminding yourself that the negative thoughts will never take you to a positive place and space internally or externally. Write a poster-sized message about that and place it in an area where you see it often. YOU CAN break those stinkin'- thinkin' cycles.
Challenge yourself to get the best out of that incredible brain of yours. You wanna be happy? What are you thinking? You want more peace? What are you thinking? You want better? What are you thinking? THINK about that, and then see where the happy, peaceful and best thoughts take you. I think you will be pleasantly surprised. Here's some food for THOUGHT: You can fuss, cuss, and complain about the rain, or you can dance in it. - S.R.F.